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When Handled With Optimism, Even 'Trials Of Job' Turn Into A Period Of Grace

By Michael H. Brown

Are you a victor or a victim? I heard a preacher ask this the other night. It's a good question. We need to make sure the answer, of course, is "victor." That's the easy part. But how do we "win" -- find happiness -- in life?

The answer is Christ, and in His Light, how we view situations. First, take a look at your hearts. Be honest: Do you look at things positively or negatively? Are you looking to the future or mired in the past? 

When we're living the past, we are often living through the lens of the negative -- dwelling on past injuries, which means we have bitterness in our hearts. In a way, our hearts and souls, our emotions, are marinating in whatever it is that made us bitter. And when we wallow in such juice, we're losers before the game even begins. 

Who hasn't done that? Who hasn't felt sorry for himself? And sometimes, we have what seems like darned good reason! There are folks who have suffered calamity after calamity -- cancer, other serious disease, heartbreaks, and accidents all in one horrid package. I have a friend who had this occur in the course of a few short years -- along with family problems, loneliness, and struggles in the workplace.

Her response? At first anger at God. But she was courageous enough to shed this anger and it led to her conversion!

That's the result of making a decision for the positive and we are all called in all things to take a positive perspective. Yes, we acknowledge the negativity; yes, we know that we go through trials; and, yes, we are aware of evil. 

From time to time, the enemy attacks.

But we are called to transcend it. And we do that by making the simple decision to accentuate what is positive. We can take all past sorrows and hurts and give them to Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament. Take them to Him and watch darkness vanish.

Look at the Blessed Mother. Most women who were scorned as ready to give birth without a formal husband, then chased down by a brutal tyrant, forced to give birth in the poorest of circumstances, and forced to watch a Son murdered in the most brutal fashion would be pretty bitter! But Mary was not -- and all generations have seen her as blessed!

Talking positively, thinking positively, and acting positively -- seeing His Light at the end of the tunnel -- draw the positive like a magnet.

Watch that happen to you. Expect good to come -- really expect it -- and watch how, in God's time, it alters your reality. It's a principle of faith. It is also why we are called to hope in the Lord. Hope leads to trust which leads to the miraculous.

On the other hand, when we choose negativity, we're drawing things that will be increasingly bad. We especially attract such negativity when we dwell on past hurts. Too often we immerse ourselves in self-pity instead of the love of God.

This is where the enemy hooks into us. This is where he causes real damage!

The way away from that?

The past should never dictate our future. Through Christ, we, not the past, should take control of what happens to us. Did He not come to grant us that victory -- and life abundant (John 10:10)? But we have to tap into that. We may not be able to undo negativity in our pasts, but we have a lot to say about the future -- and a positive future means a positive attitude. 

For this we often need forgiveness: get rid of any bitterness in your heart. Do you really want to wallow in that? Do you really need negative obsessions? Do you not notice how repeating a negativity -- dwelling on it -- keeps magnifying a painful memory?

With Christ we leave past hurts in the dust of our positive outlook -- which speeds us away from painful thoughts.

Bitterness is an acid, a bitter marinade, that eats away at us, and so is morbidity. Simply, do not allow yourself to get depressed. Clinical, you say? A psychological issue? 

Perhaps, in certain cases. But often, depression is a spiritual issue -- one we can control, one we can eliminate by moving on, by praying, by making the decision to let our wounds heal. Dwelling on past hurts is like constantly picking on a scab -- which not only inhibits healing but leaves scar tissue. Did you ever have a bad cut? Do you remember the scab that formed? And do you remember what happened if you picked at it?

The same is true with our emotions. So make a decision not to be mad. Make a decision not to be sad. Make a decision to forget the wound and let God heal it. 

The trials of Job? 

When met by faith they always turn into the greatest periods of grace.