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WHEN THERE ARE SIGNS FROM 'OTHER SIDE,' IT'S CONSOLATION OR REQUEST FOR PRAYERS

Are we supposed to communicate with the dead?

Of course not. As we have mentioned many times, initiation of such contact is contrary to Scripture. It is also highly dangerous. It may be evil spirits that we conjure -- if it's not simply a delusion.

Such can be the province of sorcerers, channelers, and mediums. And here we run up against the Word of God: "Do not turn to mediums or spiritists; do not seek them out to be defiled by them," warns Leviticus 19:31.

Stay clear of seances; especially stay away from Ouija Boards.

Cautious we must be (we are not to initiate such communication), but there are certainly instances in and out of the Bible whereby the deceased have sent messages to the living -- from the scene of the Transfiguration, where Elijah and Moses appeared, to Marian apparitions and the testimony of modern mystics such as Maria Esperanza and St. Padre Pio.

In certain cases, and in holy settings, such communication has even achieved imprimaturs.

"There are in purgatory souls who pray ardently to God, but for whom no relative or friend prays on earth," said the Madonna of Medjugorje in 1983. "It happens that God permits them to manifest themselves in different ways, close to their relatives on earth, in order to remind them of the existence of purgatory and to solicit their prayers."

Numerous are the instances whereby relatives seem to pierce the veil to ask for prayers or, just as frequently, to send messages of consolation. Is it wrong?

We heard from you -- many of you -- about this.

"I think every one of us has a story about something unexplainable happening regarding the afterlife," says Patty Gridley of Massapequa Park, New York. "Some stories are stranger and more interesting than others. I'd like to share one with you now. My Aunt Rose was, by all accounts, one of the sweetest people you would ever want to meet. A devout Catholic, she was the mother of eight grown children, the youngest of which had Down's Syndrome. Her life was tough but, in her opinion, very blessed. She loved nothing better than to have her whole family gathered together around the dining room table for a holiday meal.

"In October 1993, she was killed in a tragic accident," continues Gridley. "The family was crushed.  We couldn't make sense of this terrible loss. I know I questioned my faith at that time. How could a loving God let this happen?  However, I was soon to learn that if we keep our eyes and hearts open, we will see God working even through a terrible tragedy such as that.

"My cousin, Cindy, was about six months pregnant at the time of the accident. She began having problems with the pregnancy and there was concern that she would lose the baby.  After Aunt Rose, her godmother, had passed away, Cindy began praying to her to help with the pregnancy.

"At that time, Cindy was working as a receptionist at a doctor's office. In this office, there were two doctors, one on each side of the building and each one had a receptionist. One day while sitting at her desk, after praying yet again to Aunt Rose for help, the receptionist from the other office came over.  She told Cindy that, while she was walking through the vestibule between the two offices, a woman approached her and asked if she would give Cindy a message. The woman was dressed in a pillbox hat with a little veil that partially covered her face, such as women wore back in the 1960's. She asked the girl to tell Cindy, 'Everything will be all right. One soul leaves and another one comes.' Not understanding the message, the girl nonetheless assured her that she would deliver it to Cindy.

"When she told Cindy about this strange message, Cindy got up to look out in the vestibule, but the woman was gone.  She asked the other girl to describe the woman.  When she did, the girl asked Cindy if she knew who it could be. Without hesitating Cindy said, 'yes, it was my Aunt Rose.' (The baby was fine and they named her Allison Rose.)"

What about when we're helping them? What about indulgences for the deceased -- prayers that are especially focused on them during November, the month of All Souls?

Such intercession can be powerful, according to your testimonies.

"During the year of the Jubilee of John Paul II -- when one could gain a plenary indulgence for a Holy Soul -- my sister called me from out of state and told me she was compelled to do the indulgence for my husband's mother," writes Jennifer Spillett. "I wanted to tell my husband about this when he arrived home from work that evening but completely forgot about it.

"The next day after he had arrived at work (he worked noon to 10 p.m.) he called me and he said, 'I have just had the strangest thing happen to me that I have ever had happen.' His voice was shaky, but full of tearful joy. 'My mother went to Heaven today,' he said. I replied, 'What are you talking about?' and he told me that as he was on his way to work, he was in his vehicle at a stoplight waiting for it to turn green and this beautiful music started playing -- he didn't have on his radio -- and an overwhelming feeling came on him of his mother's presence: that she was letting him know she had gone to Heaven that day. After I hung up I called my sister. You guessed it: she had finished her indulgence at approximately the same time this had happened to my husband!"

"The next morning my oldest son, Anthony, told us of an incredibly vivid dream he had where he was praying in a church with his eyes closed. When he opened them he saw a parchment scroll with calligraphy that read: 'Dear Anthony, Your family is destined for Heaven. You will go to Heaven one day too, but you will need to pray the Rosary every day, or you will be in purgatory for twenty years after your death. Love, Mary.'"

Was something similar not said at Fatima?

In the subtle ways of God, the souls also seem to communicate through little signs.

Haven't we all had beautiful little tokens that seemed to sail beyond coincidence?

"When Valentine's Day arrived this year, my mother was missing my dad quite a bit," says a viewer named Steven LaMonde of Broad Brook, Connecticut. "As she sat alone in her home, she said to herself (and my father) 'Ray -- I guess I won't be getting my two yellow roses this year.' Yellow roses were a tradition with my mom and dad every year on Valentine's Day.

"Well, my mother went to a car wash the next day to get the sand and salt from the roads washed off of her car and as she drove out of the car wash, one of the gals in the car-wash office came out to present a gift to my mother -- two yellow roses!

"This car wash gives out flowers and roses to its female customers every year on Valentine's Day and it turns out that there were some leftovers and they didn't want to throw them away!"

Usually, the communication comes in a way that is just short of proof.  Always, there is room left for faith. Sometimes it involves what seem like unexplained sounds. "My uncle died a tragic death, in essence drinking and smoking himself to death at an early age," writes Mike Birkhold of Kalamazoo Michigan. "On the night of his funeral, I was lying in bed, not yet asleep. Suddenly, I heard steps crossing my bedroom in front of the bed.  I was initially frightened but then I had a strong sense that this was my uncle and he wanted me to pray for his soul.  I immediately began praying for uncle Mac and the footsteps stopped. I then felt at peace and fell asleep."

Often involving nature, the signs can be beautiful ones.

"When my wife was diagnosed with stage-four breast cancer on October 20, my brother handed me a first-class relic of St. Paul of the Cross," recalls a viewer named Matt from Shawnee, Kansas. "I didn't know at the time that Oct. 20th is his feast day. My wife and I met on July 7, 16 years to the day I said goodbye to her. At her grave, a bluebird landed on the tree above (this was significant because she loved blue-birds and went to a place called 'Camp Bluebird' for cancer patients). I asked out loud, 'Nanci, did you send that?' and suddenly a gust of wind blew the wing off of a plastic butterfly my children had placed there days earlier..."

The Lord consoles in many way; to deny this is to deny Him a means of communication. What we are to do (especially with Holy Water) is "test the spirits."

Notes a woman from Michigan, "I don't know if I built my home on haunted property ten years ago, or if I am being visited by the holy souls; I only know that many nights when I lay in bed to read before falling asleep I have often encountered knocking on my wall above my bed in several places. It does not cease until I pray. One night I was so unnerved by it I pulled my Scapular out of my night gown, made the Sign of the Cross with it, and then kissed it. The knocking stopped right away. It's almost as if they are saying, 'can you put in a few good words for us?'"

Test the spirits indeed; but some seem so directly benevolent.

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