We live in a smoke-and-mirrors era, especially when it comes to numbers. Numbers, numbers, and more numbers. It’s all you hear. It’s how we judge, in our strange time.
“How much is he or she worth,” we ask — as if there is a price tag on humans!
A ridiculous expression.
One time, years ago, I wrote an article for New York Magazine (“The Price of Life”), on how the New York State Health Department was formulating equations to gauge how much monetary value certain people in various communities could be calculated as having, so officials could determine whether it was worth it to invest what was needed to prevent cancer from groundwater pollution.
The range was from $49,226 to one million a person (in 1979 dollars), estimates that could be used, said a state health department report, “to describe the benefit of reducing the risk of death”!
Income and age were primary parts of an actual equation when this is of course entirely wrong: To God, every single human being is equally and infinitely valuable. God loves us all the same — as if each one of us is the only person on earth. You hear that time and again from those who have near-death experiences.
Count on this: We all have equal missions.
Yet, our society of celebrity and hyper-capitalism would never let you know that. Have we forgotten that when a multi-billionaire passes away, he brings zero with him?
And that Jesus said the last will come first, that it’s easier for a camel to fit through the eye of a needle than a rich man through the narrow gates of Heaven (not to say there aren’t wealthy people who are holy, just that it’s hard to focus on money and figures and God at the same time).
Bill Gates is “worth” $87.7 billion, and Jeff Bezos of Amazon even more, while the average America is in the negative column (average household debt: a whopping $132,000!).
Is any human worth less than nothing?
Wall Street: largely paper value, smoke. Even those who buy gold often buy the certificates or stock in it instead of the real thing. Smoke and mirrors, this would be, if everything came crashing down. A house “worth” $300 million? Smoke in the same glass.
Folks play around in day-trading and “make” a fortune (gambling). Mirrors. Smoke. You have heard it said: there has never been a U-Haul behind a hearse on its way to the graveyard.
There is also “smoke-and-mirrors” when it comes to TV and the internet. One religious show boasts that it reaches three or four hundred million people. That would be twice as high as the most who ever viewed the Super Bowl and of course isn’t close to its true audience (but rather the number of people who subscribe to the cable stations of which they are but one channel).
You see the same on the internet: x-number of this or that.
And now, nearly everybody has Facebook (the largest mirror in history) and their own private Nielsen rating. This is via “reaches” and “likes” and “shares” and “friends” — when no one, including the folks at Facebook, is really certain how many are “reached” and what a “like” actually translates to in the long term and certainly not who is a true “friend.”
There are companies that sell “likes” to build up bragging rights.
Retweet that.
Vapor. In the parlance of one Pope, the “smoke of Satan”?
From Wall Street to Las Vegas to Hollywood and even in religious circles, we judge the success of an event by numbers, something we all occasionally succumb to — when what Jesus said was to feed the flock, not count it.
A person who permanently touches another in whatever way — sitting bedside with a dying friend, helping the homeless — is “worth” more than can be expressed in any number.
This is the truly “rich” man!
“Heed not ephemeral numbers,” says a word of knowledge, “but what touches the spirit.”
— MHB
[From our archives:
As Time Itself Seems To Have Sped Up, It’s Time To Head For The Blessed Sacrament
In A Culture Immersed In Anger, Remember That Such Feelings Bring You Misfortune
The Next Time You Are Tempted To Battle, Sit Back And Let God Duke It Out
The Scriptural Rosary powerhouse
Gifts of the Holy Spirit are available to us all; just pray for them
When Handled With Optimism, Even ‘Trials Of Job’ Turn Into A Period Of Grace
When The Enemy ‘Slings’ His Arrows, Get Rid Of Them With The Spirit Of God’s Joy
If You Want To Draw Down The Blessing Of God, Try Being A Blessing To Others
We come in close contact with God with tears and cries from the heart
Man’s state of mind partly depends on his words, says priest in Medjugorje
When we stop criticizing we see flow of grace
When it hurts, is it God ‘pruning’ you?
Nothing is more potent than Precious Blood
When We’re Endlessly Blocked, It’s Time To Cast Spirit Away In the Name of Jesus
Greatest joy come from closeness to God
Prayer brings protection against fear, darts of enemy
With eyes of faith we turn defeat into joy
The miraculous statue that has saved New Orleans — and can again
With prayer, there is always an ‘exit’
There are ‘gifts’ waiting for you
Economic trends looking increasingly like the end of the Roaring Twenties
Stop complaining and watch grace flow
Nothing brings us closer to God than thanking Him
‘Humility drives away the devil’
Praying with ‘holy determination’
If you want to be happy, be who you are
The Strength Of God Comes Through Us When We Pray With Strength
Former ‘playmate’ converts after vision of Christ in Light
Faith unlocks power that separates us from evil
If you’re going to pray ‘Jabez,’ add the Name of Jesus
Laugh, grow strong, and chase devil away
What’s In A Name? From Priest To Bounty Hunter, All Have Role To Play For Christ
Sister Lucia had hailed Imitation of Christ
Radiation Of Christ Seen At Resurrection Now Flows From The Blessed Sacrament
Drawing close to Immaculate Mother means detachment from this world
You’ll Find Peace When You Realize That You’re The One Creating All the Tension
A Cross In Life Is Correcting The Lies Of The World And The Faults Of Each Other
Priest Says ‘To Forgive Is Divine’ — And Brings Astonishing Healing Results
Whether A Hurricane Or In Our Lives, Joy Comes From Sadness If We Preserve
Catholics and the ‘prayer of Jabez’
Self-Discipline Is At Heart Of Spiritual Development And A Key To Spiritual Gifts
One Means of Preserving Peace Is Receiving All Things As Coming From God
Invocation given by Our Lady of America
Lest We Forget, The Ultimate Value Of Eucharist Is The Attainment Of Heaven
With The Eucharist Comes Humility and with Humility Comes A Glimpse Of Heaven
Heaven Will Be Like The Constant And Endless Reception Of The Holy Eucharist
Pray Before The Blessed Sacrament And You Can Purge Even The Slightest Sins
On The Road To Heaven, Nothing Is More Enjoyable Than Spiritual Cleanliness
Among Revelations Of Our Time Are Signs Linked To Blessed Sacrament, Adoration
Lent Is The Time To Search Our Souls And Break Evil Bondage Through Confession
Mass Brings Alive Real Power Of Christ And Places Us Higher Than King’s Throne
The Formula For Salvation Is In Both Eucharist And High Praises To Christ
Antidote To Pride, Lust And Purgatory Is Found In Real Power Of The Eucharist
The Liturgy Should Be One Huge Display Of Gratitude For Very Fact Of Existence
In Times Of Turmoil, Tension, Or Trouble, Head For The Solace Of The Eucharist
When It Comes Time To Spread The Gospel, It Is Also Time To Listen To God
The More We Use The Gifts God Has Given Us, The More Miraculous They Become
With Eyes Of Faith We Turn From Defeat To Joy And From Victim To Victorious
When Faith Is Exercised In All Things, Big Prayers Are Answered In A Very Big Way
When Spiritual Attacks Come Through Family, Remember to Disengage
At a Time Of Aridity, Bishops Are Urged Not To Quash But To Promote Adoration
There Is Nothing Like Feeling The Holy Spirit, And For That We Pray Without End
Forcing Things Causes Blocks While Letting Go Let’s Life Unfold Before Us
When We Hit Rock Bottom, That’s When We Find A Foundation We Can Build On
God’s Gives Us All Equal Gifts When We Recognize That, We Soar To Happiness
Forget The Rush Of Modern Life And Give The Gift Of Time To Others And Yourself
Find a Way to Love Everyone You See and the Glow of God Will Surround You
At a time of ‘craziness,’ go for spirit of humility
When There’s Something You Just Can’t Shake, God May Want You To ‘Go Deeper’
Get Off The Treadmill Of Stress And Know That God Is Everywhere We Let Him
When We Go With God’s Flow, We Also Find The Lord’s Greatest Favor
When We Give Up Rigidity In Our Lives, We Make Room For The Lord And His Miracles
To Avoid ‘Curses’ And Deep Wounds, Do What Christ Said And Turn Other Cheek
Gregorian Masses–What They Are And Why We Should Have Them Offered!
Instead of Gulping Down Life Take A Step Back, Pray, and Seize Each Living Moment
‘Pray, Hope, And Don’t Worry’ Or You May Prevent A Healing, Notes Anointed Priest
A feeling of unsettlement can mean someone is too close for comfort
Joy Is The Marker Of Health And A Sign That We Are In Touch With The Good Lord
The More Enthusiastic We Are Toward The Lord The More He Sends His Grace
No Matter What Troubles You, Overcome It By Approaching It With Joy
Joy Is The Marker Of Health And A Sign That We Are In Touch With The Good Lord
When It Comes To Life Decisions, Look For joy In What You ‘Love’
If You Want Real Happiness, Look Inward And Find The Hidden Power Of Kindness
There Is Great Power In Stepping Back And ‘Knowing The Other Person’s Story’
Confession Urged As Means Of Clearing The Slate And Freeing The Soul From Spirits
When We Have Pride And Rigidity What We Build Is A Wall Against The Holy Spirit
God Wants You To Live A ‘Large Life’ And We Do That Through Him
Get Rid Of Block Caused By ‘Little’ Sins And Bright Path Will Unfold Before You
Secret Of Love May Be In Realizing That Most People Are Better Than You Think
At The Root Of Mysterious Disturbances In Life Are Often Manifestations Of Lust
Magnify God And You’ll Bring A Positive Force To Your Life, With Eyes Of Eternity
Darkness And Problems In Life Can Be Dispelled By Actual Light Of Adoration
During Mass And Especially During Lent, Pleading The Blood Has A Major Effect
The Sensation Of Tranquility Means The Spirit Is In Balance And Healing Can Begin
Magnify God With Praise And Thanks And He Will Magnify Everything Around You
An Astonishing Lesson Of Life Is That There Is No Reason To Remain Depressed
Find Who You Really Are And You Will No Longer Be Hurt By The Arrows Of Others
One Of The Great Tests In Life Is Patience — And When We Fail We Are Tested Again
‘Reverse The Curse’ And Quench The Fiery Darts By Praying For Your Antagonists
When Someone Aggravates You, Drink Not Of That Poison But Step To Victory
Nothing Is More Potent Against Evil Than Pleading The Precious Blood Of Christ
A Key To Life Is to Forget Trying to Make It Perfect Just Focus on Our Character
New alleged devotion: Rosary of Liberation
In A Rude World, The Answer Is One Day At A Time
In A World Where We Are Often Slighted, Antidote Is The Sword Of Joy From Love
We Feel Joy and Peace When We Follow That Formula Given At the Last Supper
Tests Of Life: The More God Takes Away, The More We’re Left With
Being Negative Stops The Flow While The Positive Taps Into A ‘Stream Of Miracles’
Whether Chastisement Or Our Own Lives, God Sends Events To Bring Us Closer
Of Thanksgiving, A New Daughter — And How Gratitude Opens The Door To Grace
Nothing Brings Us Closer To God Than Engaging The Heart And Thanking Him
Obsession With Time Puts Focus On What We Create and Away From Timeless God
There Is Power Is Everything We Say, And Darkness When We Misuse Our Tongues
Only through purity can we see what we need to see
In The Arguments And Trials Of Life, The Powerful Route Is Often Way Of Silence
Memo To Wall Street: Try Following The Path Of This Billionaire
It’s Fine To Watch The Weather As Long As We Monitor The ‘Weather’ Inside Of Us
Frenzy of Christmas, A Child’s Mistake Was A Message Of Love
A Lesson Of Christmas: Sometimes When God Is ‘Delayed,’ He Has A Special Plan
Mailbag: Never Give Up Because Our God Is Often A God Of The ‘Last Minute’
Defying Odds With Aid Of God Alone, Blind Couple Raised Ten Children
Choose the right doors and win the secret petitions of your heart
From The Mail: In The Depths Of Prison Despair, Mary Came With Lesson Of Faith
New devotion based on ‘Rosary of Liberation’
Only through purity do we see with right perspective
Interview: Jim Caviezel, Star Of Mel Gibson’s “The Passion Of The Christ,” And Wife Kerri
Whether Or Not He Had ‘Visions,’ The Star Of The Passion Has Deep Passionate Faith
How St. Francis preached to Muslims
Mysteries of life: do animals really have spiritual dimension
Tough Though It Is Out There, Our Job In Life Is To Resist Evil By Remaining Positive
To Avoid ‘Curses’ And Deep Wounds, Do What Christ Said And Turn Other Cheek
A smile can be powerful spiritual tool
When We’re Overweight, This Is Because In Some Way We May Be Spiritually Empty
Physical And Spiritual Cleansing Comes When We Eat Right And Periodically Fast
Approach life with niceness and smile
At The Root Of Mysterious Disturbances In Life Are Often Manifestations Of Lust
The Sound of His Voice: How Do You Tell When It’s the Lord Speaking to You?
When It Comes To Discerning The Future, Pray To Know The ‘Truth Of The Moment’
Believe It Or Not, There’s Not A Person In The World More Important Than You
In secret depths of spirit is notion of a personal mission
The Sound of His Voice: How Do You Tell When It’s the Lord Speaking to You?
When It Comes To Discerning The Future, Pray To Know The ‘Truth Of The Moment’
Gain the secret petitions of your life
We Rise To Heaven Quickest When We Have Risen Over the World’s Temptations
The Next Time You Wake Up And Can’t Get Back To Sleep, Try Prayers Of Healing
Avoid ‘curse’ of resentment by praying a blessing on everyone
Call On The ‘Spirit Of Truth’ And Watch Answers Arrive With Sudden Clarity
Former ‘Playmate’ Converts After Vision Of Christ In Light
Tough Though It Is Out There, Our Job In Life Is To Resist Evil By Remaining Positive
Whether Real Storms Or Tempests In Our Lives, Key Is Developing ‘Muscle’ Of Faith
When You Are ‘Blocked’ Learn To Ask God And Often You Will Find The Root In Pride
Choose right ‘door’ at turns in life and gain secret petitions
*Begin living Heaven from this earth
Head for Light and let dark shadows fall behind you
From the mail: the heroes of war
In The Reaches Of God Is A Whisper That Informs Us Of Best Way To Reach Heaven
Peace comes when we rest and control thoughts
When the negative comes, put up ‘no vacancy’ sign
Don’t let other define you; know who you really are
When God accents something for you, take it as a message in the tides of life
Hurricanes and the power of prayer
The bigger your problem, the greater your destiny
‘Time of God’ means to see beyond darkness
Flushing out ‘hidden’ spiritual hurts
Clearing ‘secret chambers’ of the soul
*Stop worrying and look for miracles
Step back from sinful ‘first inclination’
During Holy Week Mass extra potent
Build your ‘foundation’ in Heaven
How God can even correct your past
When you are blocked from prayer…
The ears hear, and so does the spirit
The ‘crows’ that try to distract you
A sign of the times: disorientation
God’s secret imprint on your soul
The power of marrying in the Church
Time to look for God’s ‘peak moments’
Archives: Our Lady of Surprises
Seeking God’s ‘inside information’
**As spirit of fear grips country, seek refuge in ‘inner chambers’
St. Michael and his role in purgatory
Power of God’s Will dwarfs a bomb
Don’t look for Heaven on earth (nor with shining darkness)
When someone irks you, rise above it
Ask Holy Spirit what to eat and which tests to take
**This Christmas, get rid of deadly pride
Simplicity vs. arrogance of the Pharisees
With fasting you fashion your robe in Heaven
*Let God speak for and through you
Give your worries to God; wait for His surprise
Tapping into the ‘living waters’
Rising above your personal anger
At time of extremes, find your ‘right’ spirit
A curse can’t ‘alight’ if spirit is right
**Experience joy of Heaven on earth
Angels come when we forgive ourselves
Ignore the ‘groundless indictment’
Spirituality: prime time to search for the truth
Don’t confuse obsession with love
Vanity of vanities: avoiding darkness
If we’re right with God, what do we care what others think?
Prayer is strongest when it’s spontaneous
Leave God an ‘opening’ and miracles happen
Cleanse internally and find your mission in life
To get the blessings God has for you, talk to the mountain, not about it
Cleanse your soul through gratitude
God speaks to us through intuition
Christmas Confession: let it go and it will go
Never lash out; God will vindicate you
Watch your innermost thoughts and step into paradise
Glimpse heaven by finding ‘rhythm’ of faith and casting out darkness
Man dedicated to ailing wife has vision of Heaven
Are you an excuser or accuser?
Don’t let ‘the world’ define you
Time to replace weak images of Jesus with manly ones
In age of cancer, seek balance and Holy Spirit
God can go back into your past and undo spiritual and physical harm
Kindness brings balance and health
Magnify God, not your problems
With Eucharist comes promise of Heaven
Trust in Christ and seek blessings God has in store for you
Acknowledge blessings at the crossroads of life
With Christ, you’re ‘free to lose’
Turning blessings into miracles
Have charity but stop ‘enabling’
Meditation: look beyond the clouds
Ignore the negative thoughts of others
Praise God and form a ‘bridge to Heaven’
Pray, and praise, with specificity
Get close to God and it will rain everywhere but where you are
Rising above the ‘Job experience’
Release unto God and He will put His Hand there when you need it
Head for your ‘secret sanctuary’
Missionary surgeon who roamed world brought back lesson of ‘God in the natural’
Watch your life closely and you’ll note miracles are everywhere
The ‘robe’ you wear into eternity
Reach your higher self by reaching for the Infant
Remove rocks, boulders from your life stream
A Rosary of ‘self-illumination’
Never resent, and break any ‘curse’ upon you
Don’t let fear stop you from living
This Lent, turn off the noise of the world
Finding peace as we lift the spiritual blinders
Accept God’s special gifts and ignore pace of the ‘world’
Getting rid of demonism by praising God
It’s prayer from the heart for joy that gets the attention of the Lord
Beware the ‘spirit of control’
A monk who died amazingly well
A test (and glory) of life? Weariness
When you’re at your best, you are achieving your mission
Saying your prayers versus praying your prayers
Of drought and crop failure and genetic modification
Did angels prophesy to hidden Chinese worshippers?
Prevent blindness by elevating in vision of Heaven
Praying right and finding peace
Peel the false layer off the real ‘you’
At a time of darkness, crucial is a focus on the Light
Wash away dark thoughts through discipline
Humility brings clarity of vision
The potholes of life: when God puts them there, they’re blessings
Ascend to God’s mountain and rise above turmoil
When God speaks through ‘something we haven’t seen before’
‘Prophesy’ the positive over your life
Blessings are signposts to your destiny
How to beat the Christmas frenzy
When things don’t go right, it may be God stirring up the pot
Worldliness keeps us from freedom in God
The biggest lie you tell is to yourself
The ‘stream of life’: don’t block it
No one has more gifts than do you
Super Bowl ads and the sinister
No matter the mayhem, God can send a buffer of protection
The motions of nature versus grace
Go step by step and one day at a time
Of the Last Supper and the miraculous blessing of food
We permit evil by straying from God’s design
When the breeze of the Holy Spirit rustles, He may be coming to take you to a better place
When others insert themselves into your life
Watching the tongue: hidden spiritual dangers
‘Double your blessings’ through humility
Keep the ‘dust’ off your spirit
With faith, the result is miraculous
In the test of life are imperfections we need to straighten out
In mystery of suffering is way to break bondage
Doesn’t she look like Saint Philomena?
Days of victory, days of defeat: turn both in ‘wins’
God hears those who have lowered themselves
When God allows a ‘fender-bender’
When there is loss in your life, plant it with God
Break free of your ‘final hold’
Let the ‘living waters’ flow through you
Cleanliness of spirit can lead to health
Find peace by forsaking covetousness
Don’t ‘cling’ and take away the balance of God
A surprising Lenten meditation on detachment
The ‘trash’ inside is what attracts ‘flies’
‘Little things’: the signs in your life
Sometimes, for a blessed life, you have to stop repeating yourself
Watch for little warnings; they can become big ones
Inspiration: recapture what was lost
Don’t build walls; build bridges
Is there a ‘toxic’ relationship in your life?
God gives grace to those who need it
The remarkable interior life of John XXIII
Climb every mountain: joy is marker of good spiritual life
View ‘dark’ worldly events with eyes of Heaven
Are you in chains or a ‘chain-breaker’?
Double your blessings through surrender
Go with the flow but make sure it’s the right one
Don’t let others drag you into their emptiness, arrogance
It’s the resistances of life that offer ‘lifting power’
Seek the Holy Spirit in your ‘calm zone’
Before you enter battle, ask God
Life is like a dark ‘warehouse’
Of Christmas trees and the crossroads of life
There is power in this word: silencio
Dreams: when they stir your soul, ask God about them
Life is full of joy when we forsake fear and move to ‘higher anointing’
‘Servant of God’ Maria Esperanza taught crucial nature of having ‘balance’
Of Lent, temptation, and the Garden mystery: what was ‘apple’?
Lent: time to cast out the sensuousness of self
When someone steals your parking space, count your blessings
Go with God’s schedule, not man’s
What does ‘by their fruits’ mean?
The truth always bears fruit, including in spiritual warfare
See yourself not through the eyes of others but through those of Jesus
Before making a major decision, make sure you have harmony inside
The ‘Jericho prayer’: fighting off a heavy-metal band
Sometimes, before healing, we have to forgive ourselves
No matter how rough it is out there, remember that you can’t find victory if you plan for defeat
Summer driving lessons: glide with the Spirit
Just try your best and you’re headed for the highest reaches of Heaven
Rejoice when others are blessed and you’ll be blessed too
‘Intuition’: a higher form of intelligence
Don’t let your ‘living waters’ grow stagnant
True selves: in Heaven you’ll find out your real identity
Those who ‘drain us’ must sometimes be kept at a distance
Love is the opposite of ‘blind’
When faced with persistent evil, silence may be key
God’s fingerprints are on every moment of your life
Beware the lure of materialism
This Lent, turn your ‘selves’ into one person
Paying off your ‘spiritual mortgage’ before death (and purgatory)
Beware the ‘spirit of religiosity’
Expand your vision by ‘being not of this world’
When you’re blocked in prayer, pray for the ‘best outcome’
Loneliness does not exist when we cling only to God
True greatness is in the truth of who you really are
When resisted, shake off the ‘grit’
Mailbag: more on the ‘gift of tears’
Ringing the ‘gold-toned bells’ of Heaven
To bring us close, God often works in mysterious ways
Your ‘little martyrdoms’ can get you to Heaven
Things will only be ‘perfect’ after a life of curves
View from here: a perilous political turn
‘Fruits’ tell us about others, and ourselves
Remember: anger does not enter Heaven
Count your blessings — the ones you haven’t yet received
When the light comes, just hold it
Key to avoiding ‘pit’: rising above it
Christmas thought: patience dispels anger
The Star of Bethlehem is always there, when we have eyes to see it
Looking through the eyes of a Child
Get rid of the clutter and baggage in your life
Find joy by growing in discipline
Speak health and joy into your life
Light comes when we exercise charity
Don’t build a dam around your heart
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